12 Best Cunnilingus Positions For Great Oral Sex

One great way to give women incredible oral sex is to mix up the positions that you do the oral sex in. Most people give oral sex in just one position, but if you can mix it up, your partner is absolutely going to love you for it and oral sex is going to be more exciting and more pleasurable for them.

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1. Lying On Their Back

The first position is the most basic position, and that is when they are lying on their back with their legs spread and you simply go in between their legs.

This is the most common position for obvious reasons, because it is really good and it can be a great way to really get in there and access the entirety of their vulva. They’re very relaxed as well, so they can enjoy it, and also you can use your hands to put a finger inside them while you’re going down on them and licking them.

One of the things you can do to adjust this position and give you slightly better access is to actually go ahead and take a pillow and put it underneath their bum, so this raises their pelvis up a little bit, which allows you to get easier access without being right down on the bed. It can also tilt their pelvis a bit as well, which makes accessing the G-spot easier.

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2. Raise Their Legs Up

Rather than them lying back with their legs to the side, you can actually pull their legs together a bit and, using your hands, you can push their legs up back over their head, which will then lift their bum up.

It will give you full access to the entirety of the vulva as well as their ass, if you want to lick that as well.

This can be quite a dominant way to go down on them and they can really enjoy it. It’s probably not a position that you’re going to want to hold for an extremely long period of time, but it’s definitely a great way to mix things up.

3. Lie On The Edge Of The Bed

Their pelvis, their bum, their vulva is pushed right up against the edge of the bed, which allows you to be on the floor on your knees, which can give you easier access to them. But it can also give you easier access to yourself, where you can begin to touch yourself and enjoy yourself.

Many women absolutely love it when you’re touching yourself when you’re going down on them, because it’s saying to them, “I’m actually getting off on this and I’m enjoying this,” which can allow them to relax and enjoy it even more.

It also has the added benefit of helping you to get hard, so when she is ready to be penetrated you’re ready for it and you’re less likely to suffer with performance anxiety or erectile dysfunction.

4. Semi-Seated

The fourth position is a semi-seated position, where they’ll either be towards the back of the bed or even just sitting up and leaning back a little bit.

This is a great position to do in bed, or you can do it on the couch as well. They would lean back a bit, lift their legs up, and you can go down on them.

The benefit of this position is they get to see everything and they have really good visual access down there, which can be really sexy for them.

It’s likely going to be slightly harder for you to access everything while they’re in this position; however, if they’re on the couch, they can go right up against the edge of the couch, so you can be on the floor and then you can get access to everything.

5. On The Side Oral Sex

One of the positions that I really like, especially if you’re starting off slow or if you’re both in a bit of a sleepy or a lazy mood, is to do on the side oral sex.

For this to work, you want to have your partner either lying on their back or, ideally, lying on their side with their legs spread, and what you’re going to do is you’re going to rest your head on one of their legs, facing their vulva, so you can actually kind of lie down and use their leg as a pillow as you access the vulva and go down on it.

If she’s lying on her side, then she can place her other leg over your head. You’re not going to be able to hear anything, but you’ll have really great access and you can go down on her.

Or if she wants to be able to see more, she can lie on her back and spread her legs, and you can still rest your head on her leg and lick her vulva from there.

6. 69er Oral Sex

This on the side variation can also be really great for 69er oral sex.

She can lie on her side and, rather than you being down between her legs and your body going away from her, you can actually flip around so you’re in the 69 position. You can rest your head against her leg and be going down on her, and then she’ll have access to your genitals as well.

Alternatively, for the 69er position, you can then flip her back onto her back, you can go over the top of her and then you can go down on her from that position.

Some women absolutely love this because it gives them access to your genitals while you’re going down on her, which can turn her on even more if that’s something that she loves. It can also allow you to both give each other pleasure at the same time, which can be a really fun experience.

And a tip for the 69 position, if you’re having trouble reaching everything while you’re in her mouth, because sometimes it can pull you back and it can be hard to get in there, is to actually pull her legs up so it lifts her pelvis up, and this can pull her vulva closer to you so you can get better access while she’s going down on you as well.

7. Doggy Style

The seventh position is one that can be really sexy and I think guys don’t do enough.

You have her in doggy style position on the bed and you go down on her from that position, getting your face in there and licking her pussy and her vulva from this position.

This can be really sexy for them. It can feel really good as well, because you’re actually licking the vulva from the opposite direction than you usually would when she’s lying on her back.

One of the great things about doggy style position is you can go straight from this position to penetration if she’s ready for it.

Or something that I love to do, that women really like and can be a bit of a surprise, and it creates a bit more adventure in your sex life: you can be having sex with her in doggy style position and you can pull out and then go down on her.

Most people have sex in order, so they’ll go from kissing and touching to foreplay and oral sex to penetration until orgasm, and that’s it. So by having sex, pulling out and then proceeding to oral sex, you interrupt this natural pattern and you give your sex more flow and more adventure, because she doesn’t know exactly where things are going to go.

And while she’s in this position as well, you can also put your fingers inside her and you can pleasure her with your fingers. You can lick her bum if she’s into that, and then when you’re ready you can go back into intercourse if you want or you can flow on to something else.

8. Stomach Down

This is where she’s lying down completely on her stomach with her legs spread a little bit.

This can be a great position to give her a nice relaxing massage, working away from her shoulders down her back to her bum, maybe massaging her legs as well, and then you can go in there, and you’re going to have to really smoosh your face right in there in order to get there.

This is not going to be the best position for long-term oral sex or to give her the best orgasms, but it can be a really great way to warm her up after a massage or to turn a massage into something more sexual, and to just give her a unique experience that she’s probably not very used to.

When you’re in this position, you’re probably going to have to hold your breath, so just make sure you take a breath before you go down there, because you’re going to be smooshed in there and it’ll be hard to breathe.

9. Standing Up Oral Sex

This can be really fun in the kitchen; you can even do it in the bedroom.

You have her standing up, usually it’s going to be against a wall or a bench or something, but it doesn’t have to be, and you go down on your knees and you can go between her legs.

Often she’ll lift a leg up and she’ll put it over your shoulder so you can get easier access, and then you can go down on her and look at her at the same time, and she can absolutely love it. You can also slide a finger in at the same time and be giving her oral sex and fingering her.

This is likely going to hurt your neck a bit, so it’s not something that you want to do for an extremely long period of time, but it can be a very sexy thing to do in the shower or in the kitchen or even in bed.

You can get her to stand up, have her against the wall and go down on her, and it just adds that level of spontaneity and adventure and unexpectedness to the experience.

10. Standing Up Doggy

Rather than going down on her from the front, you actually turn her around and you get her to bend over a little bit, so she’s still standing up, she’s not on her knees, but she’s bent over, and then you can begin to go in from behind.

Again, you’ll have to smoosh your face in there and you can lick her from behind.

11. Sit On Your Face

Position number 11 is really sexy.

I’ve done a full video on how to do that properly, but for now just encourage them to sit on your face, because it’s going to turn you on so much, and also encourage them to do what feels good for them.

When you’re in this position, you’ll be lying down and they’ll be on top of you, and they’ll have a lot more control than you will.

Yes, they can move their clitoris to your mouth and you can lick and pleasure them in that way, but also a lot of back and forth movement with the hips, side to side and circle movement, is going to feel really good for them.

And a pro tip is to actually take some spit and to rub it on the bridge of your nose and your forehead to make it really wet, and encourage them to grind in that area. Just make sure you can still breathe while they’re down there.

You can also touch yourself while they ride your face, which communicates to your partner that you’re getting turned on by this, because a lot of women can be very nervous to actually sit on your face, and by you pleasuring yourself it tells them that you’re having a great time.

And then when they’re finished, encourage them as well, letting them know how sexy that was.

12. Have Her On Your Shoulders

The last position is more advanced, and you need to be quite strong to do this and likely have a lighter partner in order to do this.

In this case you’re going to lift her up and put her on your shoulders, and this is going to give you access to her vulva where you can lick her.

Often, in order for this to happen, she’s going to need something on the wall that she can hang on to and kind of pull up and help support her weight. Whenever I’ve done this, there’s always been something she can at least partially support her weight on, and this can be incredibly fun and incredibly sexy in the heat of the moment, and it’s something both of you are going to remember.

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