Give Her A-SPOT / DEEP-SPOT Orgasms Easily With This Technique
The a spot or the deep spot is a pleasure zone that not many people know about. And very few vulva owners have actually experienced someone simulating the a spot or giving them an A spot orgasm. So if you’re able to touch it and simulate it, you can give your partner some really unique experiences, and some mind blowing orgasms. And lucky for us, it’s actually pretty easy to do. This is something that you definitely want to do when your partner is already fully aroused. So you will have already wanted to touch them all over, get them in the mood, maybe even stimulate the g spot and give them a G spot orgasm before going on to the a spot. And if you haven’t, go ahead and check out my video on how to find the g spot every single time, links will be in the description down below. But to find the a spot, we’re going to put our finger all the way in. Now, if we put our middle finger all the way in towards the back, we’ll find the cervix, which is a donut like shape or it’s kind of like a button with a little dimple in the middle. Now most people don’t like this cervix stimulated directly however, to the side of the cervix or anterior to the cervix by going either up or by pushing down. That is the a spot now when a vulva owner orgasms, the muscles around the cervix actually contract during that orgasm. And so by simulating the A spot we’re actually stimulating those muscles that contract and inducing an orgasm, that way, what we’re going to do is making sure our fingers extremely wet, we’re going to enter our partner with our middle finger because that’s the longest, and we’re going to have outside fingers pointing up because if our outside fingers are pointing down, we’re not going to be able to get as much depth. So having them pointing up, we’re going to actually push hard against the outside of their vulva. And we’re going to push in with our finger as far back as we can go, we may be able to feel the cervix back there, but our fingers aren’t quite long enough, we might not be able to, but that’s okay, then what we’re going to do is actually push up onto the roof of the vagina as far back as we can have our fingers, we’re then going to pressure point this area. So we’re going to apply and release pressure to that area. So it’s almost like using a come here motion. But instead of stroking along the full length, we’re going to actually find the spot and we’re going to apply and release pressure using the muscles in our fingers by having our partner in front of us like this. And by tilting our hand down, we can actually push up on a spot and apply quite a lot of pressure on there. During this you want to be communicating with your partner and looking at their reactions, seeing how they react and seeing if they like it. And this can be a great time to ask them. Is that too much? Or is that okay? And then they can communicate back with you. You can also stimulate a spot by going in with your fingers down and simulating those muscles next to the cervix on the bottom there. It’s also possible to simulate the a spot by entering your partner through their anus and actually pushing up on a spot there. And that’s the reason why some vulva owners can have incredible mind blowing orgasms from anal sex because it stimulates the a spot through the anus. If you can find the a spot and stimulate your partner’s a spot you can get some incredible reactions from them where their eyes go wide and they’re like what the heck are you doing? That feels so good. So it’s definitely something worth exploring with your partner but as always that communication is key. As I said, I recommend you do this when your partners are fully aroused. So go ahead and check out my video that I’ve done on how to find the g spot every single time and how to get them stimulated and aroused in that area.