7 Easy Ways To Make Her Cum Like Crazy

Every woman is different, and the exact technique that is going to get her off and give her an orgasm is going to be different for every single woman. However, I found that there’s seven key techniques that work for most women and are able to bring them to orgasm.

And the last technique is one of the most consistent ways to give her not just a single orgasm, but multiple orgasms as well. So make sure you read through to the end to learn what that is.

Hey, I’m Phoenix Blake, coach and educator, and I’m passionate about helping you become the best lover you can be and to give your partner some of the best pleasure possible.

And these seven techniques are my tried and true and the most common ways that I’m bringing women to orgasm on a regular basis. With most women, I’ll find one of these seven techniques works really well or multiple of these techniques work really well. And depending on the situation, I can choose which one to use.

1. Lick Her Clit

Now, I know that you see in porn guys just flicking their tongue really quickly on the clit. And yes, this can work to bring a woman to orgasm. However, you only want to do really intense clitoral stimulation when she’s already fully aroused.

So don’t just go down on her, start licking her clit really quickly and think she’s going to have an orgasm. Instead, you need to build her up, get her fully aroused.

I like to take my partners through waves of pleasure. So I’ll build them up and then I’ll drop the intensity back down again, build them up a bit more and drop it down and build them up. And then as I feel like they’re getting close to that orgasm spot, then I’ll switch into licking their clit with a rhythmic motion.

The technique that I like to use to push them over into orgasm is to lick up and down. And rather than just using the tip of my tongue, I’ll actually use the middle part of my tongue down to the tip. I move my tongue from the middle to the tip, back to the middle again.

The other thing that you can do is side to side licking on the clit. And in this case, you are using more of the tip of your tongue.

Some women prefer the up and down. Some women prefer the side to side. Many women like both. You can just mix it up in the situation.

Or the other thing you can do is what Erik Everhard calls the T-cross, where you focus on the up and down. But every now and then you switch to a little bit of side to side.

So you’re keeping that consistent rhythm that’s going to bring her to orgasm, but you’re adding in a bit of diversity. So it doesn’t get overstimulating or it doesn’t get numb from her feeling the same thing over and over.

2. Suck On The Clit

So rather than the focus being on licking the clit, you focus on sucking the clitoris and many women can actually cum through this technique. In fact, there’s toys out there that use air pulses to mimic this.

And what you want to do is suck in usually just the head of the clitoris into your mouth. So you can do a back and forth sucking motion with the head of the clitoris, or you can do more of the surrounding area as well, depending on what she likes.

Now, when you’re doing the sucking technique, you do need to check in with your partner, make sure everything’s feeling good for her. Because if you suck too hard, it can actually hurt her. So you just want to suck hard enough that it feels really good and stimulates her, but not so hard that it’s going to be painful.

And what you can do as well when you’re sucking on her clit is you can actually lick her clit with your tongue as well to make it even more intense.

So you can do the back and forth sucking and lick at the same time, or you can suck and hold her clit in your mouth and then lick up and down with her clit in your mouth, which can be more intense for some women. And it also helps to hold the clitoris in place so you can more easily stimulate it directly.

3. Give Her A G-Spot Orgasm

Now the G-spot is fairly simple to find, and I’ve got a full article on exactly how to find it, if you’re not sure. But you simply go inside her with your finger one to two inches inside her, and you press up on the roof of her vagina.

Now you can stimulate this with the come here motion, or you can lock your finger in place and you can pull in and out of her.

Some women can orgasm just from you stimulating their G-spot, and this can give them some mind-blowing orgasms that are different to the clitoris orgasms. But many women like it when you stimulate the G-spot and you play with the clit at the same time.

If you combine these techniques, it can push so many women over the edge, and it can be one of the most consistent ways to make women cum.

I’ve got a free advanced tutorial on exactly how to combine these techniques to make her orgasm. In that video, I go into detail on exactly what to do and when, so you can give her the most pleasure possible.

4. The Grinding Technique

So this is not using our fingers or our mouth, but this is during intercourse with our partner.

Many guys, when they’re doing intercourse, they focus on the in-out motion of their penis, which can feel really good for your penis because there’s a lot of rubbing, a lot of friction. It’s the most stimulating way to have sex for a guy.

However, for women, what can feel a lot better for them is for you to actually grind up against them. What I mean by this is you want to rub her clitoris against the bottom of your stomach or your pubic bone.

So if we imagine her vaginal opening with her clitoris above it, and our pubic bone with our penis below it, we’re going to go inside her. Yes.

But what we’re going to do is we’re going to push inside her and push the bottom of our stomach or our pubic bone against her clitoris. And what we can do is even lean forward a bit as well to apply more pressure. And then we’re going to rock our body up and back. And this grinding is going to stimulate her clitoris.

And so many women absolutely love this. And it’s one of the most consistent ways to bring women to orgasm when you’re having intercourse.

So what you’re doing is you’re going inside her and rather than focusing on the in out, you’re staying inside her and you’re rocking back and forth. So your penis inside her kind of rocks up and back, which both stimulates the opening of the vagina, but also the clitoris as you rub against it.

5. The Squirting Technique

So again, we’re going to be stimulating their G-spot, but rather than using one finger and doing the come here motion, we’re actually going to use two fingers and the fingers on the outside of her are actually going to point down.

So instead of focusing on pleasuring her by moving our fingers, we’re actually going to be moving our arm back and forth inside her. And you can do it quite vigorously to bring her to a squirting orgasm.

The technique for squirting can be simple, but there is a bit of nuance to it as to when exactly to do it, how exactly to do it, what are the best positions to do it in and how you can actually help your partner squirt if she hasn’t squirted before.

I’ve got a full course on how to make her squirt if that’s something you’re interested in learning.

6. Let Her Touch Herself

When you’re having sex with her or when you’re pleasuring her G-spot, let her use her hands to touch her clitoris and play with her clitoris. This can be really sexy for you to watch her playing with herself.

You can actually learn a lot by watching her play with herself as well, because she knows how she likes to be touched to achieve an orgasm. So by watching her, you can learn exactly what she likes, but also that combination of intercourse and you penetrating her and her touching herself can bring so many women to orgasm.

To allow her to do this, you want to get her in a position where she’s got a free hand. So this could be missionary position, but when you’re back on your knees, it could be doggy style position, or it could be cowgirl position where you’re lying down and she’s sitting up on you and she has access to her clitoris.

Sometimes women will be a bit nervous to touch themselves, so you can encourage them and ask them to touch themselves or you can get their hand and put it on their clitoris and then they’ll know what to do. They’ll start touching themselves or many women will start doing it and they’ll be a little bit nervous about it.

So what I like to do, if a woman does start to touch herself when we’re having sex or I’m playing with her, I let her know how sexy I find it. I say to her, “Fuck yes,” or “That’s so hot,” or “I love it when you touch yourself.”

Or what I’ll do is I’ll actually place my hand over her hand so I can feel her playing with herself or I’ll put my hand on her wrist and hold it there just to say, “Yes, I love what you’re doing.”

So if she’s touching herself, give her some sort of encouragement so that she knows that it’s okay and she can just then let go and really enjoy the pleasure that she’s giving to herself and the pleasure that you’re giving to her at the same time.

7. Use Toys

And the seventh technique is honestly one of the most consistent ways to bring women to orgasm when you’re having sex with each other, especially for women that might have trouble orgasming usually during intercourse.

For many women, intercourse alone isn’t going to be enough to push them over the edge into orgasm. Grinding can help for some women, yes, touching themselves can help, but many women will need some sort of vibration or toy that is more intense to push them over the edge.

And many guys think that women should be able to get off without using toys. I think this is ridiculous. Just use the tools that you have and I would much rather connect with a woman and her have multiple orgasms with me with the help of a toy than her have no orgasms at all.

So toys like a clit wand can be really good.

These produce really deep vibrations that can be quite intense on her clitoris. This one is by Satisfyer. But there’s also the Hitachi wand, which is probably the best one you can get. If you don’t own any sex toys, then I suggest you start with the Hitachi wand.

Otherwise you can get little bullet vibrators as well, which can pack quite a punch. Or there’s other vibrators that you can use or even toys that do air pulses on her clitoris that mimic the sucking that we talked about.

When you’re using toys on your partner, you can use them on her and you can hold the toy, apply the pressure, and move it around. Or you can give the toy to her for her to hold and you can focus on the penetration and the sex. Or instead of sex, you can come out of her and play with her G-spot while she uses a toy on her clitoris and so many women can cum from this.

To learn more about how to give her some mind-blowing orgasms, check out this article that I’ve done on the best clit stimulation techniques. And don’t forget to go ahead and get access to that free advanced tutorial where I show you how to give women consistent orgasms that will blow her mind.