8 Ways To Give Her a G-Spot Orgasm

Giving your partner a G-spot orgasm can be a really mind-blowing experience for them. Most women are used to orgasming through their clitoris, and if you can give them orgasms through their G-spot, they’re absolutely going to love you for it.

In this article, I’m going to show you some of the best ways to give her a G-spot orgasm, and the last technique is the most powerful and the most mind-blowing, so I’m saving that for last.

Hey, I’m Phoenix Blake, sex coach and educator, and I’m passionate about helping you become a better lover and give more pleasure to your partner, and what better way to do that than through stimulating the G-spot.

Now, the first thing before you can give her a G-spot orgasm is you need to be able to find the G-spot, and honestly, it’s not as hard as you may think. Generally, you just want to go inside her about up to your second knuckle, and you’re going to be pulling up on the roof of her vagina and stimulating that area.

Now, the G-spot is only going to feel good when she is fully aroused, so what happens is when she gets aroused, she has erectile tissue in the area which fills with blood and engorges and expands and pushes down into the roof of the vagina.

So, if you’re in there and you’re trying to stimulate the G-spot, but she’s not aroused yet, she’s not turned on, you haven’t warmed her up, then it’s not going to feel good for her. So, you want to start slow, you want to warm your partner up before you try any of the more vigorous techniques.

And it’s important to note that the G-spot isn’t a spot per se, it’s just an erogenous zone. It’s around two to three inches long actually, and it will depend on the woman how shallow or how deep feels best for her.

So, play around with the positioning of your fingers, be in tune with your partner and watch their breathing and their responses to find out what feels good, or you can even ask them what feels good.

Yes, you can feel for the different texture on the roof of the vagina and it’ll feel a bit wrinkled, but I don’t find that the best way to locate the G-spot. Rather, you simply go in and push up and then see how your partner responds.

Now that you know how to find the G-spot and you’ve got your partner fully aroused, what are the techniques to actually bring her to orgasm?

1. The Come Here Motion

We call it that because it’s like we’re saying, come over here.

And to do this, we simply take one finger, usually your middle finger, sometimes your pointer finger, sometimes two fingers and you put it inside your partner and on the roof of the vagina, you’re doing the come here motion and pushing up on the roof of the vagina, which can feel really good for her.

And you can do it with one finger or when she’s more aroused and relaxed, you can then do two fingers, but always start with one and work your way up to two.

Ideally, when you’re doing the come here motion, the fingers on the outside of her that aren’t inside her, you want them pointing up towards her stomach. This is going to give you more leverage with your wrist to push up more into that G-spot.

And with the come here motion, you can start slow and it’s a great way to warm her up and get that arousal happening, but it can also be done faster and with harder pressure in order to bring her to orgasm.

2. The Draw Out Method

Rather than actually moving our finger in the come here motion, we’re going to more lock our finger in and we’re going to go in and out using the muscles in our arm to go in and out rather than with our finger.

So if we’re inside her, we’re going to bend our finger and push up on the roof of her vagina. And then we’re going to pull in and out with the whole arm, keeping the finger bent.

The benefit of this one over the come here motion is that you can actually be a lot quicker and a lot firmer with this technique than you can with the come here motion.

So often I’ll start with the come here motion, build them up, and then as they get closer to orgasm, I’ll switch to the draw out method and go faster in and out in order to give them an orgasm.

3. Combine Clit Stimulation With G-Spot Stimulation

For many women, they’re not actually as attuned to the pleasure in their G-spot as they are to the pleasure in their clitoris. This is because the clitoris is the most sensitive part of their body. It’s likely the area that they’ve used the most to masturbate and orgasm by themselves.

And also it’s quite difficult for women to get a finger inside themselves and be able to stimulate the G-spot.

So for many women, simply pleasuring the G-spot alone might not be enough in the beginning until they get more attuned to that pleasure and they can cum just from G-spot stimulation alone.

So what you can do to help her along the process is to use the come here motion or the draw out method while you’re pleasuring her clitoris as well.

You can pleasure the clitoris with your fingers, or one of the best ways to do it is to pleasure the clitoris with your mouth. And I’ve got a free tutorial where I show you the exact techniques to do this that I found is the most consistent method to bring women to orgasm.

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4. Use Multiple Fingers

Now this isn’t going to be for everyone and you definitely have to take your time with this one, but often when using multiple fingers inside a partner, it can feel more intense for them than if you’re just using one finger or if you’re just using two fingers.

Now, I generally recommend just three fingers for this. It’s very rare that you’ll want to use four or to completely fist your partner. If that’s something you and your partner are interested in, I do have a detailed video on exactly how to do that.

But when you’re doing this, you really want to take your time. Start with one finger using the come here technique like I taught you, progress to two fingers. And if that’s feeling good and your partner wants more, then you can begin to use more fingers.

If you’re going to use three fingers, make sure that you wet the outside of your fingers. I like to use my spit or you can use lubricant.

And then you’re going to put your three fingers together, bunched up, not side to side, but together.

And then you slide inside your partner, taking extra care, especially when you get to your knuckles, because it can really stretch your partner and you could actually tear them if you’re not careful.

So slide inside them, taking your time here very slowly. You can do a little back and forth twist. Sometimes that can help you get inside, but be constantly checking in with your partner.

Don’t just push it in because you can tear your partner. So really take time. If they’re relaxed, then they should just be able to take it. It shouldn’t feel forced or pushed.

And then once you’re inside, you can spread your fingers apart a little bit, probably not all the way, but a little bit, and you can begin to use that come here motion, but with multiple fingers.

And this feeling of fullness can really bring many women over the edge into those G-spot orgasms if they struggle otherwise. And you can combine this technique with pleasuring the clitoris like we talked about.

5. With Your Penis

Now, it’s more difficult to give a partner a G-spot orgasm with your penis compared to your fingers because your penis is pretty much a blunt instrument. It goes straight in and you don’t have this sort of control of pressure that you have with your fingers, but it is definitely possible.

And the G-spot isn’t that far inside her vagina. So even if you’re not extremely well endowed, you can still reach it. And actually, the smaller your penis, the more likely you are to be able to direct it onto the G-spot versus someone who has a larger penis.

In order to hit the G-spot with your penis, you do need certain positions. Remember when we’re doing the come here motion, we’re pushing up on the roof of her vagina.

So with our penis, what we want to do is we’re not just going straight in and out because that’s not actually going to really pleasure the roof of her vagina, but we actually want to come in on a bit of an angle.

So our penis is poking up and sliding along the roof of her vagina and stimulating her G-spot that way.

So there’s a few different ways that you can do this. One way is to put a pillow underneath her bum while you’re in the missionary position, which is going to raise her pelvis up a bit and it’s going to allow you to get that angle a bit better.

Rather than leaning over her, which is going to make your penis more straight, you can actually be back up on your knees while she’s lying on her back. And that can help you to really push up into the roof of her vagina.

You can also lift her legs up and you can adjust her pelvis and how raised her pelvis is with how high her legs are. Her legs can go over your shoulder or she can even put her feet on your chest and push off you in order to raise her pelvis up. So you can play with these different positions.

You can also stimulate the G-spot from behind with your penis, but it’s a little more difficult. So if we want to stimulate the roof of her vagina, if she’s in doggy style position, then the roof is actually going to be down.

So what you want to do is actually be a little bit higher than her. You’re going to just slide your penis into her, pushing down.

But generally, because our penises point up, this means we kind of need to get on an awkward angle in order to do that.

Also putting your partner on the edge of the bed and then standing up and entering her that way can be a great way to reach the G-spot with your penis.

Play around with it. It is more difficult to achieve, but if you can do it, she’s going to love you for it. And if you can actually give her that G-spot orgasm through penetration, it makes that sex so much more connected and it makes it feel so much more invigorating for her.

6. Focus On Pleasuring Her Clit First

When she gets really close to orgasm, then shift to stimulating the G-spot.

As we talked about, women are often more sensitive in their clitoris and less sensitive in their G-spot.

So rather than just focusing all of our attention on stimulating the G-spot the entire time to try and bring her to orgasm, you bring her to almost orgasm and then you shift to G-spot stimulation and often quite vigorous G-spot stimulation to push her over the edge into orgasm.

And because you’re connecting G-spot stimulation with this experience of orgasm, her brain is then going to begin to wire those two experiences together. And it’s likely that her G-spot is going to become more sensitive over time and you’ll find it’s easier and easier to give her G-spot orgasms.

But if she’s struggling in the beginning, starting by pleasuring her clit, bringing her almost all the way to orgasm and then focusing on the G-spot can push her over into that G-spot orgasm.

7. Use A G-Spot Toy

Now you can get a variety of different toys from something like the njoy, which is a metal bendy toy, which can be quite intimidating for some people.

And I have found it can be difficult to use, but can give women some amazing pleasure to their G-spot and G-spot orgasms.

So rather than pushing up with your finger, it’s actually the toy and you can do rocking motions with it and you can go in and out to be able to give them an orgasm.

But you can also get vibrating G-spot toys as well, which will go in, hit the G-spot and vibrate specifically on the G-spot. And having that vibration directly on that spot can be more pleasurable for her and more likely to bring her to orgasm.

8. Give Her A G-Spot Squirting Orgasm

This is the one I promised would be the most powerful, and it’s probably honestly my favorite way to give her a G-spot orgasm.

So with this, you’re going to use a slightly different technique to the come here motion or even the draw out motion. And it’s going to be a lot more vigorous as well. But squirting orgasms can be some of the most intense G-spot orgasms for women and can just make them feel completely on cloud nine afterwards.

The squirting technique is a bit detailed and there’s a bit of nuance to it if you want to actually successfully make your partner squirt. So I’ve created a full detailed course on exactly how you can do it and how to set yourself and your partner up for success when it comes to squirting.

Go to passionately.com/squirt to check out that course, get access today and learn exactly how to give your partner these powerful orgasms.

Alternatively, read this article on some of the best G-spot stroking techniques. So you can really build your partner up and then use the techniques that you’ve learned in this article to bring them to orgasm.