5 Most Common Mistakes Women Make When Giving Blowjobs

There are some very common mistakes that women are consistently making that not only decrease the pleasure the man is receiving, but it can actually feel uncomfortable or even painful for him. Fix these mistakes and he’ll be blowing his load uncontrollably and thinking you’re the best he’s ever had.

This is part two in a series of blowjob mistakes, so go ahead and watch video number one on the worst mistakes if you haven’t seen that already.

1. Scraping Your Teeth On His Penis

We all know about it, but sometimes it’s difficult to avoid doing, especially if you have a small mouth or if he’s quite girthy. However, there’s a few simple tips that can decrease the chance of you scraping his penis.

The first is when you’re giving a blowjob, relax your jaw and your lips. So rather than being all tight in there, just simply relax them and you’ll notice that your mouth opens up quite wide and try and stay in this relaxed state as much as possible.

Another thing you can do is stick your tongue out so that your tongue covers your bottom teeth. Not only does this mean you only have to worry about scraping from the top of your teeth, you don’t have to worry about the bottom, but it looks sexy and it feels great and it can allow you to take him deeper into your mouth as well.

You’re more likely to accidentally scrape him with your teeth if you’re going really fast. So simply slowing down your blowjobs can be a great way to stop the scraping from happening.

And if his penis is rubbing against the back of your molars, simply don’t go as deep and focus more on the tip.

And a really good piece of advice here is to spit on your hand, make everything wet and use your hand when you’re giving a blowjob, almost like an extension of your mouth. This means you can focus on the head with your mouth and you don’t need to go as deep, but he’s still getting the full experience of his entire shaft being pleasured.

Often women try to avoid scraping with their teeth in the wrong way.

2. Covering Your Teeth With Your Lips

Many women try to pull their lips back over their teeth in order to stop them from scraping on the penis. And while I understand that this is done with good intentions, it doesn’t look very good and it doesn’t lead to the sexiest and the best feeling blowjob.

It also causes all sorts of issues with suction. And this just means the blowjob isn’t going to feel nearly as good as it could. It’s not going to look as good.

So don’t wrap your lips under your teeth. Instead, you want to actually pucker your lips out and push them out. This is going to give one of the most visually appealing blowjobs, but it’s also going to help give one of the best feeling blowjobs as well.

3. Not Actually Sucking

Obviously it’s called a blowjob and you don’t blow. That wouldn’t feel good, but many women also don’t suck at all. They just take the penis in and out of their mouth and their lips are not really doing much.

If your cheeks aren’t being pulled in, then chances are you’re not sucking hard enough or you might not even be sucking at all.

Simply adding in this suction to your blowjob as you go in and out, up and down on the shaft of his penis is going to add a lot more stimulation to him. It’s going to feel a lot better and you’re much more likely to be able to bring your man to orgasm if you do this.

4. Going Too Fast

One of the worst mistakes is just having no rhythm at all. And I talked about that in the previous video, but another common error that women seem to make is they just try to go super speedy, either with their mouth and their head bob, or when they’re having a break with their hand, they go really fast.

And I get it. You watch a guy masturbate and he goes to town on his penis. His hand goes so quick, up and down. However, when you’re touching yourself and going quick, it tends to feel better than when someone else is doing it and you’re going super quick.

In fact, the best blowjobs that I have aren’t at that super fast pace. And generally when you’re doing that super fast pace, it’s actually too intense. It’s too stimulating, especially to the head of the penis. And it can be quite uncomfortable and quite painful.

Instead, I suggest that you start slow and you build up speed over time. Many guys can orgasm from a slow, but consistent rhythm. And often a slow blowjob feels better than a fast blowjob.

You can also alter the grip that you have on your hands. So if you’re going really slow, sometimes light feather-like touch can feel really good on the penis.

Or if you want to amp up the intensity as you’re bringing him to orgasm, you can keep your consistent rhythm. But what you can do is begin to squeeze tighter on the penis, or you can squeeze as you come up and then release as you go down.

Squeeze as you come up, release as you go down to create this pulsing in pressure on his penis as you’re also sucking in with your mouth and using a lot of spit like we talked about in the previous video. This pulsating in pressure or an increase in pressure as you’re keeping the same rhythm can push many guys over into orgasms and completely blow their load.

5. Not Swallowing

I’m sorry to say, but pretty much every single guy out there wants you to swallow. It never feels great as a man to finish with an amazing orgasm. And then your partner runs off into the bathroom to spit it out because she’s gagging because she doesn’t like the taste or she quickly grabs a tissue to spit it in.

Giving a blowjob is as much about stroking his ego and making him feel good as a man as it is about the actual pleasure that you give him. And if you’re enthusiastic in the blowjob and then when he does cum, if you’re enthusiastic in swallowing afterwards, then the ego boost is just at a whole nother level.

So if you can, try to swallow his load. The easiest way to do this so it doesn’t taste really bad is when he orgasms, take his penis to the back of your throat and then swallow it as he is ejaculating. This way, it won’t even really touch your tongue at all. You won’t even really get to taste it.

And then after you’ve swallowed, show him your mouth and how there’s no cum in there. And if you can, show him that you enjoyed it. And if you need to, get a glass of water to wash it down or ask him if he can get you a glass of water.

And I get it. Not everyone wants to swallow. And if you don’t want to swallow, don’t feel like you absolutely have to. You don’t. Consent is everything.

However, if you do choose to spit, you don’t want to be running off to the bathroom or spitting into a tissue and feeling all grossed out. There’s really sexy ways that you can spit and not swallow that’s still going to jack up his ego. So go ahead and check out this video on exactly how to spit and make it sexy.

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