Clit Licking Technique That Works 10X Better

I’m going to share with you a technique that works about 10 times better at giving women orgasms than anything that you see in porn. But first you need to understand why the traditional technique of flicking the tongue doesn’t work.

Why Flicking The Tongue Doesn’t Work

If you’ve watched any amount of porn, you’ve seen a guy going down on a girl pointing his tongue out and flicking it either side to side or up and down on the clit. And why this doesn’t work is because it’s a very intense technique that’s very difficult to get right.

The pointed tongue flick is really up there in terms of intensity and a lot of guys will go in straight off the bat using this technique on their partner when she’s not even warmed up and she’s not even aroused. And when you’re doing this technique on her, when she’s not ready for it, it can feel quite uncomfortable for her and can even feel painful.

Even if she is aroused and she’s getting closer to orgasm, if you’re doing this technique really fast, there’s a high likelihood that it’s going to become too intense and uncomfortable for her, or it could actually numb the area because of the repetitiveness of the technique.

The tongue flicking that you see in porn does have a place in oral sex, but it’s very specific and most guys get it wrong.

The Technique That Works Way Better

Instead of pointing your tongue and trying to flick the clit with your tongue, what I want you to do is actually find the clit with the middle of your tongue and then lick from the middle of your tongue towards the tip of your tongue and back again.

For this to work, you want your face to be completely buried in her. You don’t want to be far away from her clit like you see in porn. That’s great for the cameras, but that’s not great for you to pleasure her properly.

And the reason that this technique works is not only that it gives her a nicer feeling on her clit, but also it gives you a lot more control over the pressure and over the speed and intensity of your licking.

I’ve talked in the past about the three stages of a clitoral orgasm, so go ahead and read that article if you haven’t read it already. But basically you want to build your partner up, take them through waves of pleasure and eventually push them into orgasm.

If you’re just pointing your tongue and flicking the clit really fast, then it’s clear that you’re trying to take her to orgasm straight away, but you’re not building her up or taking her through waves of pleasure.

However, with this new technique, you can start really slowly to arouse her. You can use this technique to lick up from the middle of your tongue over the clit and then move away and come back down again. This is a great way to use this technique to warm her up.

Then as she starts to get more and more aroused, you can build up the intensity by licking back and forth in a slow but consistent rhythm.

When I do it, the main stroke that I’m focusing on is the lick from the tip of my tongue back to the middle. And as I’m doing this, I’m pushing my tongue out to increase the pressure.

So not only is she getting the back and forth licking on her clit, but she’s also getting these waves of pressure, pressure that is increasing as I’m licking towards the center of my tongue and then decreasing as it gets towards the tip.

Make Sure Your Tongue Is Really Wet

As you’re licking her, your tongue will start to dry out. So just make sure every now and then you bring some spit from the sides of your mouth and get it on your tongue.

The clitoris doesn’t like being touched dry. So the wetter it is, the better it’s going to feel for her.

Because your tongue is flatter, you’re also stimulating the surrounding area, including the hood and the shaft of the clitoris as well as the sides of the clitoris and even her outer lips and her inner lips. Whereas the pointed tongue flick is just focused on the clitoris itself.

Increase The Intensity

Then when you’ve built her up and you can feel that she’s getting closer to orgasm, you can increase the intensity again, either by going faster or by simply increasing the pressure that you’re applying with your tongue.

Another thing that you can do to increase the intensity to bring her to orgasm or just give her really good feelings is to actually suck the clit into your mouth and continue to do this technique with the clit inside your mouth.

And if you really want to push her over into orgasm, then stimulating the G-spot with your finger at the same time can send many women wild.

I’ve got a free advanced oral sex tutorial where I show you exactly how to combine licking and fingering in order to consistently bring women to orgasm. In order to get access to that advanced tutorial, go to passionately.com/oral.

But seriously, go ahead and try this licking technique.

And for another great technique on how to give her incredible clitoral orgasms, go ahead and read this article.