How To Finger A Girl’s Pussy Properly

There are two ways to properly slide your finger inside her pussy and a few things you can do once you’re inside there to make it feel good. Most guys just go really hard, really fast, but taking your time and using the right technique is what makes it feel really good.

Two Ways To Slide Your Finger Inside Her

If we imagine a vulva, up at the top you’ve got the clitoris and if you slide down to the bottom, you’ve got the vaginal opening.

To enter her, you can either slide down, and making sure your fingers are wet, you can then bend your finger into her and slide in.

However, if you’ve got long nails, your nails are going to catch on the bottom of the opening and so what you actually want to do is come from the front and you want to go nail first into the vaginal opening and then slide it in, making sure that your nail doesn’t catch on the way in.

You want to always start with just one finger, usually the middle finger or maybe the pointer finger and you always want to make sure that your finger is completely wet before sliding inside her, making sure to lick both the inside and the outside of your finger.

When fingering, don’t just go really hard, really fast, but pay attention to the entirety of the vulva, touching the outer lips and the inner lips. You want to take your time down there as this allows you to build up blood flow in the area, allowing everything to feel really good.

Once You’re Inside Her

Once you’re inside her, there’s a few different things you can do.

What you don’t want to do is just finger fuck her in and out with one finger or maybe two fingers. While that can be good, closer to orgasm if she likes it, most women don’t really like that and definitely don’t like it at the beginning.

Starting with one finger, you can begin to play with the vaginal opening, which has a lot of nerve endings. So rather than going all the way in and trying to stimulate her inside, you can spend some time, especially in the beginning, playing with this area, going in small circles or going up and down with your finger.

Some women like it when you go in and then slide out and then slowly enter in again. And some women, as they get more aroused, you can make these circles bigger with your finger.

Massage The Upper Wall Of Her Vagina

When you slide inside her, a really good thing to do is to begin to massage the upper wall of her vagina.

Again, we’re not going really hard, really fast straight away here. We are bringing blood flow into the area and getting her aroused.

So we can use the come here motion with our finger, or we can push up and then draw our entire hand and finger out in order to massage that area. Or we can also just apply pressure with our finger on that area and maybe even apply pressure up and down.

When fingering, you want to make sure you’re using the flat part or the pad of your finger on the roof of her vagina. And if you’ve got longer nails, it’s really important that you don’t scratch the roof or the walls of her vagina as that can be quite painful. So when you’re in there, just make sure you’re using the flat part of your finger to pleasure her.

With this G-spot stroking technique, you can start out slow and build things up, but also you can bring quite a lot of pressure to the area.

And then as she gets more aroused, you might want to insert two fingers. So either your middle finger and pointer finger, you can insert, making sure to tuck away your nails, or you can use the middle finger and the ring finger to slide inside her. And this is going to allow you to apply more pressure once she’s aroused.

When you combine this G-spot stroking technique with a specific oral sex technique, you can give a lot of women some of the best orgasms of their life. Get access to a deep dive video where I show you exactly what that technique is and how to do it.

The Position Of Your Fingers On The Outside

Now, when you’re inside her with either one finger or two fingers, the position of your fingers on the outside of her body also plays a role in how you’re going to stimulate her.

If you’re entering her and your outside pointer finger and pinky finger are pointing up, this is going to give you a lot of leverage to push really hard on the upper wall of her vagina, which can be really great for G-spot stimulation.

However, if we flip these fingers so they’re down on the outside of her body, you’ll notice that my fingers inside get a lot flatter and there’s less upward pressure compared to when my fingers are pointing up.

This can be great for overall stimulation of the area and can allow us to then pull up and down to apply pressure to the entire region.

Another great thing about having our fingers down is that our palm will then come in contact with the rest of her vulva. So this can allow you to stimulate her inside while on the outside, your palm is stimulating her clitoris.

Stimulate Her Clitoris

When you’re inside her, you can also wet your thumb and you can use your thumb to stimulate her clitoris.

You can stimulate her clitoris with your other hand while you’re fingering her, or you can go ahead and use your mouth.

Communicate With Your Partner

Throughout all this, you want to communicate with your partner and pay close attention to the sounds they make and their body movements to work out whether or not things feel good.

Your partner knows what they like, so that feedback can be really helpful, but it’s also really important that you come to the table with a variety of techniques that you can try to see what they like best.

So go ahead and read this article on the 10 different G-spot stroking techniques so you can learn what works, try things with your partner and bring them to some mind-blowing orgasms.